An account from the past

Iโm guessing you probably don’t remember Sgt Ladavid T. Johnson. I canโt blame you. Iโm sorry to say Iโd forgotten about him too. He was killed in October of 2017 when his unit, stationed in Niger, was ambushed by fifty โIsisโ thugs.
He was a family man who loved his wife, his two children (whose names were tattooed on his chest), riding bicycles and serving his country. When he was killed Johnsonโs third child was due in January of 2018.
Shortly before Johnsonโs body arrived at Miami airport his wife Myeshia got a โcondolenceโ call from then โpresidentโ Donald Trump. It was during that call that Trump reportedly told the grieving widow that her husband โknew what he was signing up for, but I guess it hurts anyway.โ Yes, he actually said that.
Sgt Johnsonโs widow wasn’t alone. She was accompanied by her mother and Frederica Wilson, the Democratic Congresswoman who represented the widowโs Florida district. Everybody heard the call. It was on speakerphone. Everybody was aghast.
According to the Congresswoman, Trump was unable to recall the Sergeant’s name during his conversation with his widow. โ[Myeshia Johnson] was crying the whole time,โ Wilson later recounted, โand when she hung up the phone, she looked at me and said, โHe didnโt even remember his name.โ Thatโs the hurting part.โ
When confronted by the account of the call in the White House Cabinet Room Trump sat with his arms folded like a petulant child and vigorously denied the whole thing. He claimed that the Congresswoman (and, by implication, Johnsonโs widow and her mother) was lying and that โeverybody knowsโ she was lying. He claimed he had proof that she was lying, proof that he didnโt say what was claimed. When a reporter asked for the proof, Trump said they should talk to the Congresswoman first. To this day Trump still hasnโt revealed his โproof.โ
I reproduce this account for your consideration. It isnโt the most heartless thing Trump has ever done, but itโs worth remembering all the same. We should remember it before it gets lost in all the other horrendous things this monster has done because itโs about grieving human beings who lost a loved one, a loved one who served his country with dignity, honour, and ultimate sacrifice, and he and they deserve to be remembered.
But itโs also an object lesson in how far Republicans have fallen since the compassionate founder of their party, Abraham Lincoln, walked the earth. Lincoln was a man who endured unbelievable hardship during his presidency, including loss of a child, but still had time to display magnificent compassion for others similarly suffering.
We canโt expect every president to be as eloquent as Lincoln, but we have every right to demand they be as human. Of the forty five men who have occupied the office of the presidency since the founding of our republic, only one was a monster. And he still is. This is one small reminder of that indisputable fact. And, as ever, ladies and gentlemen, brothers and sisters, comrades and friends, stay safe.

Robert Harrington is an American expat living in Britain. He is a portrait painter.